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  • Doctor explains why you should never kiss a deceased person

    Doctor explains why you should never kiss a deceased person

    Dr. Viktor Ivanovik, a Moldovan doctor with more than 1 million TikTok followers, has sparked a significant conversation with his recent viral video discussing the dangers of kissing deceased loved ones during farewells. His message is clear and urgent: “Never kiss the deceased!”

    Kissing Deceased People
    Ivanovik explains that around nine hours after death, the body begins to decompose, which leads to the release of bacteria that could cause health problems. He warns that kissing deceased people person may result in the loss of smell due to exposure to these bacteria.

    Kissing Deceased People
    The video has sparked a range of reactions. Some viewers expressed gratitude for the health advice, admitting they had never considered the risks. However, others were more emotionally driven, reflecting on their connections. One commenter shared, “I kissed my father and would do it again a million times! Losing my sense of taste or smell doesn’t matter—he’s my father!”

    Ivanovik’s message serves as a reminder to weigh cultural customs against health risks. His video showcases the power of social media in shedding light on crucial, yet often ignored, health concerns.

  • After 3 painful years of infertility..

    After 3 painful years of infertility..

    Approximately one in every five couples will, at some time in their lives, experience difficulties conceiving.

    For many, it’s an extremely difficult and stressful time – but, as others will testify, patience and determination may pay off.

    Desiree and Ryan Fortin waited patiently for many years before, eventually, the couple turned to in-vitro fertilization. They prayed to God that it would help them get pregnant.

    Not long after the IVF treatment, they finally got the message that Desiree was pregnant. But the couple could never prepare for what was in her stomach …

    College sweethearts Desiree and Ryan Fortin have been happily married since 2009, but there was one thing that didn’t really work – for a long time they had struggled to conceive.

    Doctors diagnosed Desiree with polycystic ovarian syndrome, hypothyroid, and low progesterone – so she and her husband tried for three long and painful years before finally turning to in-vitro fertilization.

    But instead of getting positive pregnancy tests, Desiree got her period over and over again. It was a mentally draining endeavor.

    “It wasn’t just that I couldn’t get pregnant,” she wrote of those difficult years.

    “[Infertility] brought me more tears than I ever thought I could shed…. I lay on my bathroom floor in complete emptiness after countless negative pregnancy tests time and time again. I had to endure shots, bruises, and all kinds of meds because when you are infertile and you seek fertility treatment for help, that is what you are in for. [It is] expensive and exhausting physically, emotionally, and mentally.”

    So you can understand that Desiree and Ryan were ecstatic the moment they were finally told their first IVF treatment had worked.

    And when they saw the ultrasound they couldn’t believe there was not one but three babies growing! It turned out that the couple were expecting triplets – talk about success!

    But the struggle wasn’t over for Desiree and her family.

    Although she finally had finally fallen pregnant, doctors warned her that she wouldn’t be able to carry all the triplets to term.’

    “I was too thin, too short, and it was my first pregnancy,” she recalls being told. “However, my hope wounds proved her wrong.”

    The Fortin triplets were born in the summer of 2015. Desiree delivered at 34 weeks and one day, via C-section.

    The couple were over the moon to welcome babies Sawyer, Jack, and Charlize – weighing more than 5 pounds each.

    ”I’ll never forget my delivery day. Like all things involving parenthood, there were unexpected turns. After the triplets were delivered, Ryan went with them to the neonatal intensive care unit and I was sent to recovery‚” Desiree told Today.

    Desiree had some complications and bleeding, requiring emergency surgery, so she wasn’t able to see her precious kids right away.

    But Ryan FaceTimed with her so that the new mom could see her little miracles. After two weeks in the NICU unit, all three babies were able to come home and start their lives.

    Settling at home with three babies was a huge gift for Ryan and Desiree.

    ”We are blessed, but parenting is also a hard job filled with the greatest of responsibilities — caring for tiny humans. Our babies have severe reflux and colic — times three. Getting into a routine is difficult, as is maintaining your relationship amid crying babies, sleepless nights and a new routine,” Desiree said.

    Today, the triplets are 7 years old and the whole family seems to do great.

    You can follow their life and adventures on Desiree’s Instagram page, where she’s got 150K followers.

    ”I never imagined God would use our story to reach so many people. It has been an incredible experience,” she says.

    There, she’s also revealed that she and Ryan are expecting again! So soon this beautiful family will soon be six!

    Thank you for sharing your story and your life Desiree, I really hope it can help other couples who are having a hard time and are struggling with infertility!

  • Neighbours Judge Pregnant 50-Year-Old behind Her Back

    Neighbours Judge Pregnant 50-Year-Old behind Her Back

    Amanda and the women at her book club quickly judged a pregnant 50-year-old woman without knowing the entire story. It was only when they learned the true nature of her pregnancy that they regretted their actions.Amanda was in her 60s and was happily

    single. She never married, nor did she have any children. To keep herself busy, she hosts the weekly neighborhood book club in her house, where women who lived in the area would gather every Saturday. Amanda only ever got along with the people in her book

    club through the years. She loved order, so every time a neighbor’s child would break a flower pot or dirty her side of the street, she would get angry. Because of this, the children were afraid of Amanda.

    They steered clear of her front yard and never offered her any baked goods and juices they sold every summer, which other neighbors happily supported. One day, Amanda went to the grocery store. There, she met Jane, a 50-year-old neighbor whom she hadn’t spoken to. Jane was at one of the aisles, looking at junk food. “We shouldn’t be eating that kind of junk now that we’re older,” Amanda told her. Jane politely smiled and told her that her

    household always had chips available at home for their guests. Amanda shook her head and told her which ones to buy. “Then at least go for the organic ones,” she said, pointing at those she thought were better.Amanda always thought she knew best, and the entire neighborhood knew it. So instead of arguing with her to mind her own business, Jane thanked her for her suggestions.Coincidentally, Amanda and Jane met again at the checkout counter. There, Amanda decided to invite Jane to their book club. “You must get bored on the weekends. You should join our book club,” she said, handing out a flyer.

    Jane smiled and accepted. “Sure. I’ll see you on Saturday,” she said as she took her grocery bags and left the store. Amanda was pleased that she had recruited another member to their club. That weekend, Jane showed up. The routine at the book club would always be the same: they’d talk about a book for an hour, eat sandwiches and drink tea for another hour, and chatter the night away.Jane showed up for another two weeks before she started to be absent. Amanda couldn’t believe that Jane would pass on the

    opportunity to join their book club. What appalled her even more, was that Jane didn’t answer her phone whenever she called.A month had passed, and Jane was still nowhere to be found. Irked that her need for order was disrupted, Amanda asked the other women if they’d seen Jane. “Is she out of the country or something?” The women replied that they didn’t know where Jane was, as they had not heard from her since they last saw her.

    Amanda shrugged off the thought and carried on with her life until one day, she decided to walk outside for a breath of fresh air. She saw Jane walking down the street, caressing her round belly with her hand.The following day, Amanda couldn’t wait to tell the book club members what she’d seen. “I swear that Jane is pregnant!” she blurted out immediately. Another woman chimed in, saying she also saw Amanda that week and that her belly looked big. Amanda shook her head.”At her age, she should be babysitting her grandchildren, not giving birth! It’s disgusting!” Amanda said, judging Jane behind her back.”Tell me about it,” another elderly woman said. “What’s the baby going to call her?

    Grandma? Imagine going to parent-teacher conferences with gray hair while all the other moms are in their thirties.”At that comment, the book club members laughed in agreement.”Who would want a child from her?” Amanda laughed mockingly. A couple of days later, Amanda saw Jane at the grocery store. She was standing near a food shelf caressing her round belly with her hand. Amanda rushed to Jane with a burning interest to learn the name of her baby’s father. Before getting to her question, she decided to poke fun at Jane, who was looking at a shelf of peanuts. “You know, pregnant women shouldn’t eat peanuts. It can cause allergies!” Amanda scoffed as she got closer. Jane turned to her calmly. “I’m not allergic to peanuts, and my doctor told me I’m completely healthy.

    I do have the go signal to eat peanuts,” she replied.”It doesn’t matter! You’re putting a child in danger. You’re so selfish,” Amanda said without hiding her annoyance. As Jane was about to respond, she suddenly felt sick. She covered her mouth with her hand and ran to the nearby toilet. “Ugh. Disgusting. That’s why women your age shouldn’t be having babies!” Amanda called after her. Suddenly, Jane’s daughter appeared with her husband. “What’s the matter? Why are you yelling at my mom?!” she asked. “I was teaching your mom a lesson. She is very selfish to be buying junk food while pregnant. She is putting the baby in danger,” Amanda said. “Besides, how can she even sleep around? Isn’t she a widow?” Jane’s daughter was appalled. “First of all, ma’am, with all due respect, my mom’s pregnancy is none of your business,” she said. “But since you are all up in her business, the truth is, I’ve been trying to get pregnant for two years, but each pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. I tried surgery, I tried IVF, but nothing helped.

    The doctor said our chances were zero to none. Adoption was not something I wanted to do…” Jane’s daughter explained.Jane had just stepped out of the bathroom when she heard her daughter confronting Amanda. She decided to step in and continue the story. “I offered to be a surrogate mother for my daughter, so she and her husband could have the child they dreamed of. This is my daughter, Billie, and her husband, Timothy Watson,” she said. Amanda was stunned and immediately felt embarrassed for how she had acted in the past couple of months. What stunned her even more was hearing Billie’s husband’s name. “Timothy Watson…” Amanda muttered as if trying to recall where she heard the name from. Then it hit her. Timothy Watson was the heir of a multi-million-dollar corporation in their state, particularly the one Amanda used to work in.”I’m so sorry,” she immediately said. “I didn’t know that Jane gave you such a wonderful gift by having your baby. Really, I’m sorry.””You don’t have to apologize to me,” Billie said.

    Then she looked at her mom, hoping Amanda got the message. “I’m sorry I judged you without knowing your story, Jane. I hope you can forgive me,” Amanda said in tears. She had been put in her place, and it taught her a valuable lesson about minding her own business. Jane forgave her, and Amanda vowed to be better. When Jane gave birth, Amanda was the first to visit her at the hospital after her daughter and son-in-law. Amanda made sure to ask if Jane needed any help, and she aided in her recovery by taking care of the baby every time she visited Jane’s house. In the end, Amanda changed her ways, and she became good friends with Jane.

  • THEY ALL LAUGHED AT HIM FOR MARRYING HER!

    THEY ALL LAUGHED AT HIM FOR MARRYING HER!

    Everyone mocked him when he married her! Now, they all regret it. See what unfolded in the initial comments below…

    Once we embrace our imperfections and love ourselves completely, that’s when we truly begin to experience life to its fullest.

    It’s not simple to achieve. Celebrities and the media play a role in making ordinary people feel insecure about their looks, as they promote unrealistic standards through airbrushed images in magazines.

    Some people refuse to let society’s unrealistic beauty standards define them and work hard to challenge others’ perceptions of them.

    Amelia, a person who has faced severe criticism due to her weight, has always been known by her mother as someone who would grow up to be a “big” woman. From the time she was born, Amelia was chubby for her age, and her mom could foresee her future. Despite being adored and considered cute as a child, she unfortunately had to endure bullying as she grew older.

    Amelia, excluded by society, passed her time in her room playing video games until Sean came into her life.

    Their simple life overcame challenges and resulted in a marriage proposal and a small wedding, sparking a worldwide movement promoting tolerance and empowerment.

    They have shown that love has the power to conquer any challenge by reshaping the norms of love in an extraordinary manner.

  • How Heidi Klum and Seals 4 Kids Look

    How Heidi Klum and Seals 4 Kids Look

    Heidi Klum and Seal’s love story began under unique circumstances, as the supermodel was pregnant with her first child when she met the soulful singer. The couple went on to share a share deep connection, and despite parting ways, their bond as loving parents to four children remains unbreakable.

    Despite their fame, all but one of Heidi Klum and Seal’s children have led lives out of the public eye. However, their recent attendance at a premiere has given the world a glimpse of what these A-list celebrity kids look like all grown up.

    Leni Klum: Following in Her Mother’s Footsteps
    Leni Klum is Heidi’s eldest child, born in New York City on May 4, 2004. Weighing in at 7 pounds and 5 ounces, reports emerged that Leni and her mother were in excellent health following her birth.

    The German supermodel — known for role as a judge alongside Sophia Vergara and Simon Cowell on “America’s Got Talent” — shares Leni with Italian businessman Flavio Briatore. However, there have been conflicting reports about the latter’s involvement in his biological daughter’s life.

    Nonetheless, Seal lovingly assumed the father figure role in Leni’s life when he legally adopted her in 2009, 4 years after marrying her mother. “It doesn’t make [Leni] any more or less my daughter. She always has been. All it means is that both Heidi and I wanted her to have the same last name as the rest of us,” the famous singer said.

    Following in her mother’s footsteps, Leni embarked on a modeling career, a decision she had long desired. Now, the young model is carving out her own niche in the fashion world.

    Reflecting on her journey, Leni said, “I had grown up going to work with my mom. Ever since 11 or 12 years old, I’ve been begging her and then finally I turned 16 and she said that I could finally start modeling.”

    Heidi has always cherished her bond with Leni, which was made evident in the heartfelt Instagram post the supermodel shared in honor of her daughter’s 17th birthday in 2021. Heidi posted a throwback video of herself strutting her stuff on a catwalk, revealing she was four months pregnant in the clip.

    “If I look close enough then I can see you bumping right along at 4 months @LeniKlum. I loved you before you were born, and I will love you long after I close my eyes forever,” the sweet caption read in part.

    Henry Samuel: A Creative Soul
    After announcing that they were expecting in March 2005, Heidi and Seal welcomed their first child together, a son named Henry Günther Ademola Dashtu Samuel, later that year in September.

    Born in a Los Angeles-area hospital, both mother and baby were reported to be “happy and healthy.” The name Günther was chosen to honor Heidi’s father, a nod to her German heritage.

    Henry was born just a few months after his parents tied the knot in a romantic beach wedding near Seal’s home on Mexico’s luxurious Costa Careyes. The family settled into their Bel Air estate Shortly after Henry’s birth, where he joined his older sister.

    Henry was often remarked upon for his striking resemblance to his father as a newborn. Heidi humorously shared her thoughts on that.

    “Everyone who sees him says, ‘Oh my God, he looks just like Seal.’ And I’m like, ‘He has nothing of me? C’mon, there must be something of me in there somewhere.’ And they’re like, ‘No, sorry, he looks just like his father.’ I’m a little sad about that,” the model said through laughter.

    Unlike his sister, Henry has largely stayed out of the public eye. However, his privacy preference has not stopped his mother from gushing about him.

    In 2011, Heidi described a then 6-year-old Henry as “very artistic,” noting that he often lived in his own imaginative world. She fondly recalled an outing where Henry wore enormous green, fluffy dinosaur-feet slippers to dinner.

    “You can barely walk in those things, but for him, it’s not weird at all,” she laughed. Henry’s creative spirit was evident from a young age, as Heidi shared in 2008 that he enjoyed playing dress-up with his sister’s princess gowns.

    “There’s nothing wrong with that,” Heidi explained, embracing her son’s playful exploration of different outfits. The supermodel humourly admitted that the flashy, elegant dresses were far more fun than traditional Buzz Lightyear costumes.

    Johan Samuel: Growing Up Away from the Spotlight
    On November 22, 2006, Heidi and Seal joyfully announced the birth of their second son, Johan Riley Fyodor Taiwo Samuel. Born at 5:01 p.m. in Los Angeles, Johan weighed a healthy 8 pounds and 11 ounces.

    From the beginning, Johan’s parents have been dedicated to keeping him out of the public eye. Johan has been shielded from the spotlight, much like his older brother Henry, with Heidi rarely sharing photos of him online.

    However, in a rare moment of sharing, Heidi posted a wholesome snap on Instagram in 2021, showing herself dwarfed between her two tall sons. The photo, taken from behind, humorously highlighted her sons’ impressive height compared to her’s. “How did I get so short?” the caption read.

    Lou Samuel: The Youngest and Most Festive
    Heidi and Seal welcomed their youngest child, Lou Sulola Samuel, in Los Angeles, on October 9, 2009. Seal expressed profound joy and love in a heartfelt statement following her birth.

    “It’s difficult to imagine loving another child as much as you love your existing children. […] Lou Sulola Samuel was born, and from the moment she looked into both of our eyes, it was endless love at first sight,” the singer shared.

    Seal announced Lou’s impending arrival earlier that year during a Radio City Music Hall concert, where the singer surprised his audience and Heidi with the news.

    Reflecting on that moment, Heidi revealed, “[The news] came out faster than I wanted it to. My husband kind of surprised me and everybody at one of his concerts.”

    As the youngest of the Samuel siblings, Lou has been largely shielded from the public eye, much like her brothers. However, Lou is known for one unique trait that sets her apart from her siblings: her love for Halloween.

    In 2021, Heidi revealed that Lou was the only one of her children who shared her enthusiasm for the holiday. Instead of her usual extravagant Halloween party, Heidi hosted a smaller celebration for her kids, where Lou stood out by fully embracing the spirit of the occasion

    Heidi proudly noted, “Out of four, there’s only one that really is going for it and that’s Lou.” Lou dressed up as an Anime character, complete with “full-on makeup, the hair, all the accessories.”

    Seal’s Rare and Wholesome Public Outing with His Children

    Seal shared a special and rare public moment with all four of his children in early January. The musician attended the premiere of “The Book of Clarence,” directed by his brother, and stepped out with all of his kids.

    The “Kiss from a Rose” singer, now 60, was photographed walking the red carpet with his entire family, marking a significant public appearance that delighted fans and media alike.

    One touching moment captured in photos was Seal kissing Lou on the cheek, highlighting the affectionate relationship he shares with his children.

    Another memorable shot featured Seal posing with Leni and his brother Jeymes smiling broadly for the camera. This rare outing was a testament to Seal’s deep connection with his children, despite the family’s general preference for privacy.

    Seal with his brother Jeymes Samuel and daughter Leni at the premiere of “The Book Of Clarence” on January 5, 2024, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

    Seal, well-known for the scars on his face, has always embraced them as part of his identity. In 2011, he opened up about these scars, explaining, “I always call the marks on my face my battle scars. I tell my children I sustained them when I was fighting to defeat evil demons.”

    They are actually from discoid lupus – a chronic skin condition – which started when he was 21. However, the singer added that the scars have become a source of pride for him.

    The appearance of Seal with his children at such a high-profile event underscores the importance of family in his life. It also offered the public a glimpse into the close-knit nature of the Samuel family, further endearing them to fans and followers who have watched the children grow up, albeit from a distance.

    Despite calling a quits on their relationship, Heidi Klum and Seal have remained doting parents to their four children Leni, Henry, Johan, and Lou. While they largely steer clear of the public eye, moments like the recent “The Book of Clarence” premiere provide a rare and heartwarming look at their close-knit family.

  • ‘Falcon Crest’ and ‘Star Trek’ Actress dead at 70

    ‘Falcon Crest’ and ‘Star Trek’ Actress dead at 70

    The beloved actress Jill Jacobson, known for her roles in Star Trek: The Next Generation and Falcon Crest, has tragically passed away.

    According to the star’s longterm friend, Dan Harary, succumbed to a longterm illness.

    Sad news for fans of Star Trek: The Next Generation and Falcon Crest—actress Jill Jacobson has passed away. The Texas-born actress is probably most known for her role as Erin Jones on Falcon Crest, where she appeared in over 20 episodes.

    Jacobson also appeared in Star Trek: The Next Generation and Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, leaving a lasting impression on viewers everywhere.

    Died on December 8
    She grew up in Beaumont and Dallas, Texas. After finishing school, she set her sights on an acting career and moved to Los Angeles, where she landed her first major role as the title character in Nurse Sherri in 1977.

    Beyond her acting, Jill also showed her creative flair behind the scenes as an executive producer for projects like The Circle and the 2014 short film Mic Whore.

    The actress’ passing was confirmed by her longtime friend, Dan Harary, who shared the sad news with The Hollywood Reporter. He revealed that Jill passed away on December 8 at Cedars-Sinai’s Culver West Health Center after battling a long-term illness.

    Reflecting on her loss, Dan said, “She will be deeply missed by numerous relatives, friends and her beloved dogs, Benny and Kowalski.”

    Jill Jacobson cause of death
    The exact cause of the Falcon Crest star’s death has not been disclosed at this time. What we do know is that Jill’s friend, Dan Harary, confirmed that the actress passed away after battling a long-term illness.

    In September 2024, Jill revealed that she had undergone treatment for esophageal cancer, describing the experience as incredibly challenging. Jill lived with the disease for over two and a half years.

    “What I went through was pretty intense. You can’t function, you just can’t function,” she said while appearing on the YouTube show The Jim Masters Show.

    But she managed to turn the devastating health diagnosis into something positive – which wasn’t an easy feat at first.

    “It’s been a secret. Kind of took me out of the game for a while,” she said “It was esophageal cancer. It took like two, two and a half years of treatment.”

    See her one last time
    After being diagnosed with cancer, Jacobson became a dedicated volunteer and spokesperson for the American Cancer Society. Her efforts earned her numerous awards for her advocacy work, according to The Independent.

    “And now I’m so grateful, I just want to keep going, I want to help people. It makes you want to help people,” she said.

    Sadly, Jill Jacobson’s journey came to an end at the age of 70. Her manager, Ben Padua, confirmed the heartbreaking news to Entertainment Weekly.

    ”We are incredibly sad to say goodbye to our beautiful, soulful, hysterically funny, elegantly raunchy client, Jill Jacobson,” Padua shared in a statement to EW. ”Jill was a total spitfire of an actress with comedic timing straight out of a Marx Brothers’ flick and Hollywood glamor right from its golden age.”

    Jill Jacobson’s talent and passion will continue to shine even after her passing. Fans can look forward to seeing her one last time in the upcoming TV show Merrily, set to be released in 2025.

  • Grimes is a hypocrite

    Grimes is a hypocrite

    These days, Elon Musk is making headlines every single day. Whether it is for something he does with DOGE, a speech he makes, when he attempts to buy other major companies, or even just because of his proximity to President Donald Trump.

    Musk, the richest man in the world, seems to also have the ear of the most powerful man in the world: the American President. In an unprecedented move, Donald Trump has allowed Elon Musk not just to form DOGE (Department of Government Efficiency) but has decided to give them more power as of last week.

    The decision has left a sour taste in many mouths, including mine. Musk is a figure who has historically been embroiled in a lot of controversy. And some of his recent antics are a major cause for concern.

    At an event to celebrate Donald Trump’s inauguration ceremony, Elon Musk gave a speech that made headlines globally. And it was not the content of the speech itself that had people talking but a gesture that Musk did which raised eyebrows from the entire world.

    Musk, had his right hand over his heart and then raised the same arm in the air, in what resembled a Nazi salute. Since then, Musk has firmly claimed that this was not his intention. He posted to his platform, X, and wrote, “Frankly, they need better dirty tricks. The ‘everyone is Hitler’ attack is sooo tired.”

    But honestly, not everyone bought his explanation. The fact that he was able to walk past this incident like it was nothing and actually tried to shift the blame on those who were worried was astonishing. A man with so much power and influence over the world right now should not have such a blasé attitude towards his actions being likened to those of a Nazi.

    But this is not the first time Musk has been embroiled in controversy, and knowing his hunger for attention, it probably will not be the last. Before things became so politically tinged for Musk, he often made headlines for his personal life.

    His trans daughter, Vivian Jenna Wilson, went on the record last year to tell the world that her father was an absentee dad who was cruel to her for being queer and feminine when she was a child.

    Musk had said that he had been tricked into authorizing gender-affirming care for her when she was 16 years old. To him, he said, she was figuratively ‘dead,’ a horrible thing to say about your child to your public audience of millions.

    Now 21 years old, Vivian is not backing down without a fight and, in an interview, said that Musk was lying as while he had been hesitant, he fully understood what trans-related medical procedures he was signing off for her as her parent. “I think he was under the assumption that I wasn’t going to say anything and I would just let this go unchallenged. Which I’m not going to do, because if you’re going to lie about me, like, blatantly to an audience of millions, I’m not just gonna let that slide,” she said.

    And to me, if your own child is calling you out for lying… well, that does little for your character.

    Being a proud pro-natalist, someone who likes to catastrophize about a ‘population collapse,’ and talks endlessly of wanting to increase birth rates, Musk himself has 12 children with three different women and a variety of different surrogates. And possibly a 13th child, according to Ashely St. Claire’s recent claims.

    Three of his children are with his ex-girlfriend, Canadian singer Claire Elise Boucher, who goes by the stage name Grimes. While Grimes welcomed their first child by giving birth herself, the other two were welcomed via surrogate.

    When Musk began to date Grimes, a lot of eyebrows were raised, and not just because of their age gap. Grimes was considered as a feminist icon in the music industry. She was known for championing other female and queer artists.

    So when Grimes who was known for being vocal about her progressive politics was seen dating Elon Musk, people were shocked to say the least. She had the term “anti-imperialist” in her Twitter bio, which she famously removed after she appeared publicly at the Met Gale on Elon Musk’s arm. An artist who was loud and proud about being against capitalism was suddenly dating the world’s richest man. In 2018, she even defended some of Musk’s actions on Twitter (now X), such as his dissuading his workers at Tesla from unionizing.

    The act of being an anti-capitalist alternative musician slowly fell away, and she was revealed to be someone who did not mind capitalism at all when presented with the chance to date someone who is quite literally the face of it in the 21st century.

    Throughout all of this, she has vehemently tried to maintain that her politics are progressive and portray herself as someone who is on the side of queer youth. She recently posted to Instagram about how she is donating from her music video to fund and develop female and non-binary lead art.

    However, she was not only in a relationship with Musk but welcomed three children with him. While she gave birth to their eldest, X Æ A-Xii, the younger two, Exa Dark Sideræl and Techno Mechanicus, were welcomed via surrogate.

    Last year, Grimes opened up about the custody battle with Musk. She wrote, “Spent a year locked in battle in a state with terrible mothers rights having my instagram posts and modeling used as reasons I shouldn’t have my kids and fighting and detaching from the love if my life as he comes unrecognizable to me, with a fraction of his resources (or iq/strategy experience).”

    “All the while I didn’t see one of my babies for 5 months. And this is only what can be said publicly, since most of my experience these last years should remain behind closed doors,” she added.

    Now my question is, why is she surprised? Had she not seen how Musk had been treating his exes in the past? She betrayed her principles to be with a man who did not align with the ideology she sold to fans for years, and when he betrayed her and tried to throw her under the bus, she came back to the same fans for sympathy.

    She made the decision to bring three children into this world with a man who denied his eldest child’s transition and has said she is ‘figuratively’ dead. He does not serve the role of a parent in Vivian Jenna Wilson’s life, who has said publicly that Musk was an absentee father. But somehow, Grimes ignored all of this and then tried to change her tune to ‘woe-is-me’ when the world’s most powerful man decided to use his assets against her rather than for her.

    And in my opinion, when she was not able to enjoy Musk’s power, money, and influence by being on his good side, she seemed to backtrack on everything she had been defending him for.

    Personally, I am tired of her shtick. She still can be seen tweeting about as if she cares about the world. When Musk came under fire for a Nazi salute, she asked people to not involve her in the actions of her ex. Unfortunately, when you have three children with a person who has never really hidden his intentions and motives, you do have some responsibility to distance yourself from their actions.

    Grimes still preaches about love, advocating for queer youth, and more but thinks it a chore to have to emphatically state that she does not support the problematic rhetoric her ex routinely spews online?

    I also cannot stand her ‘aw shucks’ attitude towards her fans. Her tweets reek of a coy, wide-eyed, hair-twirling act. She wrote, “I honestly thank the people who r still grimes fans cuz my god I have not made it easy for you haha. At this point it’s literally like some kind of mystical trial to harden the will,” encouraging her fans to come and console her.

    Through all of this, she will also sometimes post something which confuses people about her true feelings towards Elon Musk. On January 18, 2024, she posted, “Just for my personal pride, I would like to state that the father of my children was the first american druid in diablo to clear abattoir of zir and ended that season as best in the USA. He was also ranking in Polytopia, and beat Felix himself at the game. I did observe these things with my own eyes. There are other witnesses who can verify this. That is all.” Alluding to Elon’s gaming skills and how they bring her pride. At one point, she will lament about how he is using his assets to bully her legally and then post about how proud she is of his gaming skills.

    Can she pick a lane? On one hand she will be quick to dismiss Elon’s actions as having anything to do with her but then also tweet about the time they were together, trying to remind people of her affiliation with her. Either she wants people to focus on her and her music, or she wants to remind them of her relationship with Elon, she cannot have both but somehow, it seems she picks and chooses a path as she pleases in the moment.

    As an adult woman, she is free to make her own decisions, but what annoys me about her is that she actively chose to date someone who went against all the morals she claimed to uphold. This moral flip-flopping is not annoying but it is tiresome and completely see-through.

    If Grimes would be adult enough to accept all her actions and say, ‘yes, I changed my mind about capitalism, imperialism and willingly had three children with a man who represented a lot of things I said to have opposed,’ it would have still been palatable. She needs to stop portraying herself as a progressive alternative artist and accept that she is much like everyone else she tries to differentiate herself from.

    We all know the truth about her now. So, can we stop acting like she is any better than the father of her children?

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  • Kelly Clarkson’s ex Brandon Blackstock took a lot

    Kelly Clarkson’s ex Brandon Blackstock took a lot

    Kelly Clarkson’s Montana ranch story has all the makings of a country song – heartache, legal battles, and a triumphant finale.

    After a judge ruled the $10.4 million property was rightfully hers, she then had to convince her ex-husband, Brandon Blackstock, to hit the road.

    Keep reading to learn what happened to the ranch and Blackstock!

    Kelly Clarkson, the original American Idol, captivated the world with her powerhouse vocals and heartfelt lyrics. The singer is known as one of the best talents the show has ever found.

    However, as amazing as her career has gone, her relationship with Brandon Blackstock – the stepson of country music legend Reba McEntire – was filled with just as much emotion and unexpected twists as her biggest hits.

    The singer of “A Moment Like This” and her former manager, who wed in 2013, seemed to be the ultimate duo and fans couldn’t get enough of their chemistry, both on and off stage.

    But, in June 2020, the 42-year-old filed for divorce after nearly seven years of marriage, citing irreconcilable differences.

    Recently, an insider told Page Six that the hitmaker “felt single” when she was married to Blackstock, 48.

    Kelly Clarkson and ex-husband Brandon Blackstock. Credit: Shutterstock
    Divorce battle
    What followed was a messy legal battle that included disputes over finances, custody of their two children – daughter River, 10, and son Remington, 8 – and ownership of their $10.4 million Montana ranch.

    The sprawling estate, which features rustic log cabins, lush pastures, and breathtaking mountain views, is the kind of place that screams relaxation, creativity, and some horseback riding.

    The ranch was purchased during Kelly Clarkson and Blackstock’s marriage, making it a key asset in their high-profile divorce. While Clarkson envisioned the property as a retreat, Reba McEntire’s former stepson Blackstock saw it as his dream ranching headquarters – a clash that would spark a drawn-out legal battle.

    Marital property
    Blackstock, who shifted his career focus from managing artists to becoming a full-time rancher, argued that relocating would disrupt his lifestyle and plans.

    In 2021, a judge ruled that the ranch belonged to Kelly Clarkson, citing her prenuptial agreement.

    “The Court further finds that the Montana Ranch and the other two Montana properties are not titled in both of the Parties’ names either as joint tenants with right of survivorship or as tenants by the entireties, as required under the PMA to create marital property,” People reports of the court documents. “The Court therefore rejects Respondent’s [Blackstock’s] position that the Montana Ranch and other Montana properties are marital property owned 50/50 by the Parties.”

    The decision was a major win for the pop powerhouse, but there was one problem: Blackstock wasn’t leaving. Despite the court’s ruling, he stayed put, claiming he needed time to relocate his burgeoning ranching business.

    To stay on the property, Blackstock was required to pay $12,500 in monthly rent and in June 2022, he finally vacated.

    Kelly Clarkson and ex-husband Brandon Blackstock. Credit: Shutterstock
    ‘Wanted to make it beautiful’
    The host of the Kelly Clarkson Show was awarded primary physical custody of the two children and is now living in New York. And in 2023, Blackstock was ordered to pay his ex-wife $2,641,374 for “overstepping in his managerial role and unlawfully procuring deals,” according to People.

    “I think the thing about divorce – especially having it publicized, and people thinking they know the whole thing – the hardest part of that is, like, it wasn’t an overnight decision.” The “Stronger” singer told People. “I wanted to make it beautiful. I wanted to make it awesome. I wanted to make it everything it possibly could be, and sometimes that just doesn’t happen.”

    Ranching headquarters
    Now Blackstock is still living the cowboy life in Montana. The famous singer’s ex-husband founded Valley View Rodeo in 2023, “a multi-faceted organization dedicated to keeping the western lifestyle alive in the modern day.”

    And, his executive assistant is Brittany Jones, who according to her LinkedIn “managed day to day for artist, Kelly Clarkson under manager, Brandon Blackstock in Los Angeles for music and television.”

    Jones’ profile also shares that “after a change in management for Ms. Clarkson,” she “transitioned to Executive Assistant for Mr. Blackstock’s cattle operation in Montana” where she runs “the office and administration work,” and fulfills “personal assistant duties for Mr. Blackstock.”

    What are your thoughts on Clarkson and Blackstock’s long divorce battle? And, what do you think of Blackstock partnering with the singer’s former assistant? Please let us know your thoughts and then share this story so we can hear from others!

  • AS A SINGLE MOM WORKING AT A DINER, I LOST SIGHT OF MY SON—WHAT HE SAID TO A FIREFIGHTER LEFT US ALL IN TEARS

    AS A SINGLE MOM WORKING AT A DINER, I LOST SIGHT OF MY SON—WHAT HE SAID TO A FIREFIGHTER LEFT US ALL IN TEARS

    Working at a small diner means you sometimes have to get creative with childcare. My babysitter canceled last minute, so I brought my four-year-old son, Micah, with me to work. It was Halloween, and he was thrilled to wear his little firefighter costume—red helmet, coat, and all. I set him up with some crayons and a grilled cheese at a back booth, reminding him to stay put while I handled the dinner rush.

    At some point, between refilling coffee and taking orders, I glanced over and—he was gone.

    Panic hit me fast. I called his name, rushed to the backroom, then checked under the tables. Nothing. My heart pounded as I ran toward the kitchen—maybe he wandered in there.

    And that’s when I saw him.

    Micah was in the arms of an actual firefighter, a big, broad-shouldered man still in his uniform. But the man wasn’t just holding him—he was crying. Silent tears rolled down his face as he clutched my son to his chest.

    The entire kitchen had gone still. The cook, the dishwasher, even a couple of customers peeking in from the counter—all watching.

    I rushed forward, but before I could speak, Micah looked up at the man and said, clear as day, “It’s okay. You saved them. My daddy says you’re a hero.”

    The firefighter sucked in a shaky breath. His grip on Micah tightened just for a second before he gently set him down.

    I was speechless. My husband—Micah’s dad—was a firefighter, too. He passed away in a fire last year. I had never told Micah much about the details, just that his dad was brave. I had no idea how he’d pieced together this moment.

    The firefighter wiped his face and crouched down to Micah’s level. His voice cracked when he asked, “Who’s your daddy, buddy?”

    And when Micah answered, the man’s face completely crumbled.

    “He was my best friend,” the firefighter whispered, his voice barely audible. “We went through training together. He… he saved my life once.”

    I clutched my chest. My husband had told me stories about his crew, but I had never met them all. And now, standing here in the middle of the diner, watching this man break down over my son’s words, I realized that grief didn’t just belong to us.

    Micah, oblivious to the weight of what had just happened, gave the firefighter a bright smile. “Daddy says you don’t have to be sad. He says you did your best.”

    A deep, ragged breath filled the space between them. The firefighter nodded, unable to speak, before finally whispering, “Thank you, little man.”

    It was then that I realized Micah’s words had given this man something I hadn’t been able to find for myself: peace.

    The rest of the night passed in a blur. The firefighter, whose name I learned was Tyler, stayed for a little while, drinking a coffee he barely touched. Before he left, he knelt in front of Micah again and pulled something from his pocket. It was a small, silver badge, worn at the edges but still shining.

    “This belonged to your dad,” he said, placing it gently in Micah’s palm. “He gave it to me for luck, but I think you should have it now.”

    I covered my mouth with my hands. I hadn’t seen that badge in years. My husband had mentioned giving it to a friend before his final shift, but I had never known who.

    Micah beamed, gripping it tightly. “Thank you! I’m gonna keep it forever.”

    Tyler nodded and stood, his eyes meeting mine. “He was a hell of a man,” he said quietly. “And he’d be so proud of both of you.”

    I didn’t trust myself to speak, so I just nodded. When Tyler finally left, I sat beside Micah, running my fingers over the badge.

    That night, as I tucked Micah into bed, he held the badge close to his chest. “Mommy, Daddy’s still watching, right?”

    I swallowed the lump in my throat and kissed his forehead. “Always, baby. Always.”

    And as I turned off the light, I realized something profound: love doesn’t end with loss. It carries on, in memories, in unexpected connections, in small silver badges passed down through time.

    Sometimes, the ones we love find ways to remind us that we’re never truly alone.

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  • THE GUY WHO BULLIED ME THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL NEEDED MY HELP IN THE ER

    THE GUY WHO BULLIED ME THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL NEEDED MY HELP IN THE ER

    I’ve been a nurse for six years now. Long shifts, aching feet, barely enough time to eat—but I love it. It’s the one place where I feel like I truly matter. Nobody cares what I look like, just that I do my job well.

    But today? Today threw me back to a time I’d rather forget.

    I walked into the ER room with my chart, barely glancing at the name. “Alright, let’s see what we got—” Then I looked up.

    Robby Langston.

    He was sitting on the bed, wincing as he held his wrist, but when he saw me, his eyes went wide. For a second, I thought maybe he didn’t recognize me. But then he did a quick, awkward glance at my face—at my nose—and I knew.

    Middle school, high school… he made my life hell. “Big Becca,” “Toucan Sam,” all the creative ways to make a girl hate her own reflection. I spent years wishing I could shrink, disappear, be anyone else. But here I was, standing in scrubs, holding his chart, and he was the one needing me.

    “Becca?” His voice was hesitant, almost nervous. “Wow, uh… it’s been a while.”

    I kept my face neutral. “What happened to your wrist?”

    “Basketball injury,” he muttered. “Just a sprain, I think.”

    I nodded, checking his vitals, doing my job like I would with anyone else. But inside, I was battling old ghosts. I had imagined a moment like this before—facing my past, getting some kind of closure. Maybe even some kind of justice.

    Then, as I wrapped his wrist, he let out a small, almost embarrassed laugh. “Guess karma’s funny, huh? You taking care of me after all that.”

    I met his eyes. For once, he wasn’t the cocky guy from school. Just another patient, just another human.

    And then he said something that made my hands pause.

    “Listen…” Robby swallowed hard, shifting on the bed. “I want to say I’m sorry. For everything I did back then.”

    I blinked, taken aback. An apology? From the guy who made me dread going to class, who gave me nicknames I still remember in my worst moments? I forced myself to keep my professional composure, setting aside the gauze and grabbing a wrist brace from the supply cart.

    “You don’t have to say anything,” he continued, voice quieter now. “I know I was a jerk, and I can’t fix it. But I’ve thought about it a lot. Especially when I found out you became a nurse.”

    He gave a weak chuckle. “I figured if anyone deserved to do something meaningful, it was you.”

    I focused on Velcro straps and making sure the brace fit correctly. Part of me wanted to tell him exactly how much he hurt me—how I spent weekends hiding in my room, how I tried every ridiculous remedy to ‘shrink’ my nose, how I once begged my mom for surgery I didn’t need. But another part of me, the nurse part of me, the older, maybe wiser part of me, reminded me that I was here to help. Even if it was him.

    “Well,” I said finally, testing the brace, “I appreciate that.”

    There was silence for a moment, thick with everything left unsaid. I caught him watching me like he was waiting for me to unload on him. But I held my tongue. I wasn’t sure I was ready to forgive him just yet, apology or not.

    Before I could say anything else, Robby winced and cradled his wrist again. “Is this supposed to hurt this much?” he asked.

    I frowned. “Let me take another look.”

    I checked his pulse, did a quick neurological check, then glanced at his chart. His X-rays weren’t back from Radiology yet, but something about his pale face and the way he gritted his teeth made me wonder if it was more than just a simple sprain.

    “We’ll know more once the doctor reads the scans,” I said, pressing two fingers against his forearm. “Does it hurt here?”

    He nodded. “Yeah, right there.”

    “Okay, we’ll keep it wrapped and immobilized. Try to stay calm.”

    I stepped out into the hallway, my thoughts racing. Knowing how athletic Robby was in high school—captain of the basketball team, the guy everyone cheered for—maybe he overdid it or took a bad fall. But I had a nagging feeling there was something else.

    As I waited by the nurses’ station for his results, memories flashed through my mind. I remembered the day in tenth grade when Robby and his friends were mocking me in the cafeteria. I spilled my lunch all over my shirt, and they roared with laughter. I ended up in the bathroom, tears streaming down my face, wishing I could vanish.

    A fellow nurse, Dina, must have seen the clouded look on my face because she nudged my arm. “Everything okay, Becca?”

    I shook myself out of the memory. “Yeah, I’m alright,” I said, forcing a small smile. “Just…someone from my past showed up, that’s all.”

    She gave me a sympathetic look. “Take a breather if you need it. We’re all covered for a few minutes.”

    I nodded and stepped away, heading toward the staff break room. Once inside, I tried to calm my nerves with a few deep breaths. I knew I had to keep it professional, but my stomach was in knots. Robby’s presence was stirring up an old hurt I’d worked so hard to bury.

    I returned to find the doctor, Dr. Yun, reading Robby’s X-rays on one of the computer screens. She frowned, tapped a few keys, then motioned me over.

    “Fracture here,” she said, pointing to a tiny crack near the wrist joint. “It’s not major, but it’s definitely more than a sprain. We’ll need to put him in a cast. Could be a hairline fracture.”

    I nodded, inwardly relieved to have something concrete to focus on. “Do you want me to prep the materials?”

    She nodded. “Yes, and I’ll talk to him about aftercare.”

    I gathered the supplies for casting—a roll of plaster, padding, some warm water—and wheeled them into Robby’s room. Dr. Yun followed.

    “There’s a small fracture near your radius,” she explained to Robby. “You’ll need to be in a cast for a few weeks. We’ll do a follow-up to check on the healing.”

    He slumped, looking genuinely bummed. “That means I can’t play for a while, huh?”

    “Probably not,” Dr. Yun said gently. “You’ll want to rest it, keep it elevated, and do some exercises once the cast comes off.”

    As she finished giving instructions, I moved in, carefully wrapping a layer of padding around his wrist and lower arm. The room was quiet—just the sound of the tape unrolling and Dr. Yun’s occasional reminders about recovery guidelines.

    I tried to focus solely on the procedure, but I kept noticing Robby watching me. It was a different kind of look than the mocking stares he used to give in high school—this time, his gaze was weighted with something else. Maybe regret. Maybe curiosity.

    When we were done, Dr. Yun left to see another patient, leaving me to clean up. Robby flexed his fingers carefully and sighed. “Well, guess I’m out of the next tournament.”

    I shrugged, packing up the casting materials. “Better to heal properly than push yourself and make it worse.”

    He nodded slowly, then looked at me with a seriousness I hadn’t seen in him before. “Hey, Becca, you got a minute?”

    Part of me wanted to say no. But I also felt a strange nudge to see what he had to say. “Sure,” I murmured, setting the supply tray aside.

    “I’ve been volunteering with a youth basketball league downtown,” he said, looking almost sheepish. “I was gonna help them with a fundraiser next month, but now I’m not sure how much I can do. Maybe just talk to them, help plan things…”

    I stood there, arms folded, not quite sure where he was going with this.

    He cleared his throat. “Look, I know I don’t have a right to ask you for anything. But I remember you used to be really good at organizing school events—you were always volunteering for the student council, setting up dances, fundraisers. I—uh, I could use some help, if you’re interested.”

    He must have seen the shock on my face. I opened my mouth, then closed it, trying to form words.

    “Why would I—” I began, then stopped. My first instinct was to shut him down. But the second instinct was curiosity. Could this be real? Was Robby genuinely trying to build a bridge?

    He ran a hand through his hair, looking embarrassed. “You’re right. Forget I said anything. I just—I guess I wanted to show you I’m not that jerk anymore.”

    I looked down at his cast. The old me would have silently rejoiced at the idea of him dealing with the inconvenience. The new me knew that wasn’t who I wanted to be. Still, I wasn’t ready to jump on board some grand basketball fundraiser project with him. “Let me think about it,” I finally said. “I appreciate the offer, but…just give me some time.”

    He nodded, and I could see a flicker of relief cross his face. “Take all the time you need. I’d be grateful for any help. Here—” He scribbled a phone number on a scrap of paper. “If you decide to consider it.”

    That night, I was off at seven, which was almost a miracle in the ER world. I trudged home, threw my bag down by the door, and sank onto my couch. My cat, Pinto, meowed his usual greeting, weaving around my ankles. I scooped him up, pressing my face into his soft fur, trying to clear my head.

    Why on earth would I help Robby Langston of all people? The same guy who once made me trip in front of the entire cheer squad, who told me no one would ever want to date “Big Becca”?

    I remembered how I used to keep a diary back then, writing long entries about how badly I wanted to be invisible. Yet here I was, a grown woman—a nurse, someone who’s helped hundreds of patients, someone who’s finally embraced the fact that my nose is just part of my face, not some giant, defining flaw. I even learned to wear bright lipstick, something I never dared to do in high school, because I was afraid it would draw attention to my face.

    But that was then. This is now. Robby was different today—quieter, even remorseful. And he had apologized, which was more than I ever expected.

    A week passed. During that time, I kept busy with back-to-back shifts. I tried to shove any thoughts of Robby aside. But one afternoon, as I was checking my phone during a break, I came across a flyer for the youth basketball league’s fundraiser—some of my coworkers had shared it on a local community group. Turns out they needed volunteers for everything from setting up tables to organizing raffles.

    I felt a twinge of nostalgia. I used to love planning school events. There was a rush in seeing everything come together, in helping people have a good time for a good cause. And these were kids. Kids who might not have had all the advantages in life. Kids like me, who felt small or overlooked.

    Without overthinking it, I typed a message to the league’s general email, offering to help. I didn’t mention Robby at all. If they needed an extra pair of hands, I was willing. That night, one of the coordinators, a woman named Ms. Calderon, wrote back, thrilled to have another volunteer.

    So that’s how I found myself at the community center the next Saturday, wearing a volunteer badge, scanning the gym for Ms. Calderon. Kids were running around, bouncing basketballs, squealing with laughter. Parents chatted in the bleachers. It felt warm and welcoming.

    When I spotted Ms. Calderon, I introduced myself. She gave me a quick tour, explaining how the fundraiser would help pay for new uniforms, equipment, and possibly a refurbished court. “We’re so thankful for the help, Rebecca,” she said. “We’ve got a small but dedicated group. Do you know Robby by any chance? He usually leads the practice sessions, but he’s injured right now.”

    I swallowed. “Yeah, we went to high school together,” I said, keeping it vague.

    She nodded with a smile. “Good guy, that one. The kids adore him. He’s always so patient with them.”

    I nearly choked on my own breath. Patient? Robby? The same guy who used to make me feel like trash? I forced a polite smile and nodded.

    Half an hour later, I was sorting T-shirts for the fundraiser when I felt a presence behind me. Turning around, I came face to face with Robby. He had his cast tucked against his side, and his expression hovered between apologetic and hopeful.

    “Hey,” he said softly. “Didn’t expect to see you here.”

    I shrugged, shifting my stack of shirts. “I saw the post about the fundraiser. Figured it was for a good cause.”

    He gave a small smile. “Thanks for coming. I really appreciate it.”

    We spent the next hour side by side, going over raffle donations. Despite the awkwardness, we found a sort of rhythm—filling out forms, labeling items, brainstorming ideas for silent auction baskets. I watched Robby interact with the kids—cheering them on, offering pointers on dribbling techniques. It was like seeing a whole new version of him.

    At one point, a kid named Devin ran up, face shining. “Coach Robby, look! I can dribble with both hands now!”

    Robby high-fived him, grin spreading wide. “Dude, that’s awesome! Keep practicing, and you’ll be unstoppable.”

    Devin scampered off, and Robby turned back to me, cheeks a little red. “He calls me Coach, but I’m just a volunteer.”

    I closed a file folder. “Looks like the kids look up to you.”

    He hesitated, cradling his cast. “I want them to have the confidence I never really had, if that makes sense.”

    I nearly laughed at the irony. “Didn’t you always seem confident in high school?”

    He sighed, leaning against the table. “I pretended. My home life was—rough. My dad was strict, and I wasn’t good at meeting his expectations. I took it out on other people, and you caught the brunt of it. I know that doesn’t excuse what I did.”

    I felt my throat tighten. All those years, I’d assumed he was just a golden boy with a mean streak. I never considered there might have been something else going on. It didn’t erase the pain, but it made me see him in a different light.

    As the last of the kids filed out, Robby walked me to my car. The late afternoon sun cast long shadows across the parking lot. Benny, my cat at home, would be meowing for his dinner soon, but I felt something needed to be said before I left.

    We stopped by my old sedan, and I turned to face him. “I’m not gonna lie, Robby—what you did to me back then hurt. A lot. I spent years feeling ugly because of those names you gave me.”

    He lowered his eyes. “I know. And I’m sorry. I was too immature to realize how deep words can cut.”

    I exhaled slowly, the tension in my chest easing just a bit. “I appreciate your apology. It doesn’t fix everything, but it means something.”

    He gave a small nod. “I don’t expect forgiveness overnight. But I’m doing what I can to be better.”

    For a moment, we just stood there, the weight of old wounds and new possibilities hanging between us. Finally, I reached into my bag and pulled out a piece of paper. “Here,” I said, handing him a short list. “It’s some ideas for the fundraiser—raffle baskets, maybe a bake sale. The community center can do the heavy lifting, but you might need volunteers for the weekend event.”

    He took the paper, gratitude in his eyes. “This is great. Thank you.”

    I offered a tight smile. “Just let me know if you need any help.”

    A few weeks later, the big day arrived. I wasn’t scheduled at the ER, so I showed up early at the community center. Despite my lingering unease with Robby, I’d committed to helping. It felt good to invest my time in something that might actually help kids in need.

    The place was buzzing with energy—bright posters, tables full of donated goods, parents dropping off baked treats for the sale. Robby, still in his cast, directed volunteers on where to set up. Ms. Calderon was everywhere at once, handling last-minute details. The air smelled like sugar, rubber basketballs, and a bit of fresh paint from the newly repaired court.

    I ended up managing a booth selling raffle tickets for gift baskets. One was filled with sports gear, another with reading books, and another with local restaurant vouchers. People lined up, excited to contribute. Kids darted around, squealing with delight, clutching their own tickets.

    Halfway through the day, I noticed an older man standing at the edge of the gym, watching Robby from a distance. He was tall, had a stiff posture, and an unreadable expression. Robby’s dad, maybe? It made sense. I’d never met him, but I remembered hearing rumors in high school that Mr. Langston was tough.

    Sure enough, after a while, Robby walked up to the man, and they spoke quietly. I couldn’t hear them, but the tension was evident—Robby’s shoulders squared, his dad’s jaw set. Then something shifted: Mr. Langston patted Robby’s cast gently, nodded once, and quietly left. Robby stood there for a moment, almost looking stunned, then turned back to the hustle and bustle of the event.

    By late afternoon, the fundraiser was winding down. People were packing up, kids and parents trickling out. We counted up ticket sales, and Ms. Calderon nearly teared up when she saw the total. “This will go a long way toward new uniforms,” she said, hugging me. “Thank you so much, Rebecca. And I have to thank Robby, too. Without his connections, we wouldn’t have had half these sponsors.”

    I spotted Robby across the gym, carefully helping a volunteer stack folding chairs. Even with a cast, he was pitching in. I made my way over. “Your dad came by,” I said, handing him a stray fold-up table sign.

    He glanced at me. “You saw that, huh? He just stopped by to see if I was serious about this whole community work thing. Maybe even proud, in his own way.”

    I nodded, feeling a pang of empathy. “Look, I know it’s complicated. But it seems like he’s at least trying.”

    Robby exhaled. “Yeah. I guess we’re both learning how to be better.”

    We locked eyes, and in that moment, I felt a small fragment of the old hurt fall away. I wasn’t entirely healed, but I was moving forward, and so was he.

    A week later, I found a small envelope slipped under my locker at the hospital. Inside was a handwritten note:

    Becca,
    Thank you for helping at the fundraiser. The kids had a blast, and we raised enough money for everything we needed. I’m grateful you gave me a chance—and I’ll keep trying to prove I’ve changed.
    —Robby

    Tucked behind the note was a group photo from the fundraiser: Robby, Ms. Calderon, me, and a crowd of beaming kids in mismatched uniforms. In the picture, I was smiling wide, not trying to hide any part of myself.

    I stood there in the locker room, absorbing what that photo meant. It was a snapshot of two very different people, once at odds, working together for something bigger than their past. Whatever else happened, I realized I felt lighter—like I’d dropped a burden I’d been carrying for years.

    We often think certain hurts can never be undone—that the things said to us when we were young will define us forever. But sometimes, life gives us a chance to see people in a new light. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting what happened; it means finding a way to keep moving forward. It means deciding that someone else’s cruelty doesn’t have the final say over who we become.

    I’m not sure if Robby and I will ever be close friends. But in that ER, and later at that fundraiser, I learned that people can surprise you. We all have a story that shapes us, and sometimes the biggest step toward healing is allowing ourselves to witness someone else’s growth. You don’t have to let everyone back into your life, but you can let go of the pain. And that, in its own way, is powerful.

    If this story resonated with you—if you’ve ever faced an old hurt or found hope in an unexpected apology—please share it with someone who might need encouragement. And if you believe that second chances and a bit of compassion can bring us closer together, go ahead and like this post. You never know whose heart you might touch just by sharing a reminder that it’s never too late to be better, to do better, and to let go of what’s been weighing you down.